Boys in upper school

are just beginning to challenge their world and develop their individual viewpoints. Creating the opportunity for lively discussions will help them articulate their ideas and perceptions.
Boys in upper school are just beginning to challenge their world and develop their individual viewpoints. They want to know “how” and “why,” so it’s important for the teacher to communicate the relevance of the subject matter. And, to encourage independent thinking, students should be exposed to scenarios that have a variety of solutions.

The student-teacher relationship will be tested in new ways during this phase. Teachers must recognize the importance of creating a safe space where students feel they will be heard. Sometimes the teacher’s most important job is to simply listen and be present. When boys see that teachers are invested in their success, trust develops and they become less hesitant to ask for help.

Fostering an authentic relationship often requires a time investment outside the classroom. By attending and supporting students’ varied activities, teachers can demonstrate that they care for more than just the academic life of the boys. Boys instinctively recognize and prize sincerity and authenticity. They know and appreciate when someone truly cares about their well­being and wants them to succeed.

Ideally, classroom instruction should include:

  • Questions that lead to lively discussions where the boys feel safe to challenge the material and express their opinions
  • Active learning rather than passive, rote learning
  • Humor—including sarcasm, satire, parody, and a willingness to laugh at oneself
  • Fairness in assessments
  • Taking students out of their comfort zones, challenging them, and providing one-on-one support
  • Reinforcing students’ ownership of their learning

Upper School Teacher

As a world language teacher, making jokes in the target language is easy. When the boys make the connection and understand the humor, they become more engaged.